Workplace Bullying

Workplace Bullying (sometimes referred to as psychological harassment ) has been said to be responsible for more lost productivity in the workplace than any other cause. Surprised?

Many are familiar with childhood bullying, and Barbara Coloroso has written an excellent book on the subject: The Bully, the Bullied, and the Bystander From Pre-School to High School—How Parents and Teachers Can Help Break the Cycle of Violence

“It’s the deadliest combination going: bullies who get what they want from their target, bullied kids who are afraid to tell, bystanders who either watch, participate, or look away, and adults who see the incidents as simply 'teasing' and a normal part of childhood. Discussing her new book, the bully, the bullied, and the bystander, Barbara Coloroso gives parents, caregivers, educators - and most of all, kids - the tools to break this cycle of violence.”

While the behaviour is certainly not new, the acknowledgment that very similar issues are present in many workplaces is relatively new. With courage and a willingness to talk openly about these issues, we can address this problem and ultimately become enlightened, just as we are becoming enlightened about racism, sexism, and other 'isms' that ultimately interfere with our ability to leave this world in a better state than we found it.

More recently, Barbara has written a new book ( Extraordinary Evil) that makes a compelling argument for a connection between bullying and genocide. It all begins with a willingness to feel contempt for another.

“It is a short walk from bullying to hate crimes to genocide—genocide is the most extreme form of bullying—a far too common system of behaviors that is learned in childhood and rooted in contempt for another human being who has been deemed by the bully and his or her accomplices, to be worthless, inferior, and undeserving of respect. ” Barbara Coloroso


There is no such thing as an “innocent bystander”.


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And the Emperor, hearing what they said, shivered, for he knew that their words were true. But it would never do to stop the procession; and so he held himself stiffer than ever. And behind him, his officers held their heads higher than ever, and took greater pains to pretend to carry the Emporer's train, which was not there at all. </quote>

University of Calgary Ethical Policies:

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Resources on Workplace Bullying:

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  • The Bully at Work: What You Can Do to Stop the Hurt and Reclaim Your Dignity on the Job by Gary Namie Ph.D., ISBN: 1570715343 http://bullyinginstitute.org/book.html
  • The Gentle Art of Verbal Self Defense at Work by Suzette Haden Elgin ISBN: 0735200890
  • When You Work for a Bully by Susan Futterman, published by Croce Publishing Company. http://www.mytoxicboss.com/index.html

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The Corporate Psychopath:

<style left> This is about a report published by one of the world's leading authorities on psychopaths (Robert Hare, a Canadian!!): http://www.fastcompany.com/magazine/96/open_boss.html

Is your boss a corporate psychopath?

Take the test: http://www.abc.net.au/catalyst/quiz/

Here is another: http://www.fastcompany.com/magazine/96/open_boss-quiz.html

http://www.abc.net.au/catalyst/stories/s1360571.htm

More on non-violent psychopaths by Robert Hare: Without conscience: The disturbing world of the psychopaths among us Coping with Psychopaths at work (adapted from: Martha Stout, author of The Sociopath Next Door.):

  1. Suspect flattery. Sincere compliments from a coworker or a boss are nice, but outrageous flattery is often an attempt to draw you into a psychopath's snare. If you feel your ego is being massaged, you may be dealing with a psychopath. Be careful.
  2. Take labels and titles with a grain of salt. Just because someone is older, has a higher position or more degrees, or is wealthier than you are does not mean his or her moral judgment is better than yours.
  3. Always question authority when it conflicts with your own sense of right and wrong. This may be hard to do, but it is crucial to your own career and well-being.
  4. Never agree to help a psychopath conceal his or her suspicious activities at work.
  5. If you are afraid of your boss, never confuse this feeling with respect.
  6. Realistically assess the damage to your life. If it's too great, you may have to leave. Remember that living well is the best revenge.

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Places concerned with Academic Integrity and the like:

About Adult and Workplace Bullying and Mobbing:

Harvey (2002) explained that bullies are usually difficult to spot because they often display an exaggerated degree of apparent respect to those in authority above them, therefore building up credit in the institutional leadership memory banks. But, Harvey advised, 'It is a naïve overgeneralization for those with status and power in an organization to assume that everyone who treats them with apparent respect treats everyone including the most vulnerable, with the same kind of respect' (p. 525). Harvey warned against giving a bully an opportunity to behave appropriately; the dynamics of workplace bullying are unique, and traditional methods such as mediation are not effective, and may, in fact further traumatize the target. Bullying cannot be handled in a morally neutral manner through arbitration.

Some Information on Workplace Bullying:

Bullying is of a predatory nature, or even may be dispute-related in some cases, but as Namie (2003) was quick to point out, it should never be brushed off as a personality clash because:

  • Targets endure bullying for almost two years before filing a complaint
  • Targets have a seventy percent chance of losing their jobs
  • Seventeen percent of targets have to transfer to other jobs
  • Only thirteen percent of bullies are ever punished or terminated
  • Seventy-one percent of bullies outrank their targets
  • Bullying is three times more prevalent than sexual harassment
  • Bullying is often invisible and occurs behind closed doors without witnesses
  • Even when bullying is witnessed, team members usually side with the bully
  • As many as ten percent of suicides may be related to workplace traumatization

Nationwide statistics on workplace bullying indicate (Brunner & Costello, 2003, and Namie, 2003):

  • Eighty-one percent of bullies are in supervisory roles
  • Fifty-eight percent of bullies are female (Namie)
  • Eighty-four percent of bullied employees are female
  • Twenty-one percent of all workers have been targeted by bullies

Reasons targets are bullied (Namie & Namie, 2000):

  • Fifty-eight percent are targeted because they stand up to unfair treatment by the bully
  • Fifty-six percent are mobbed because the bully envies the target's level of competence
  • Forty-nine percent are targeted simply because they are nice people
  • Forty-six percent are bullied because they are ethical
  • Thirty-nine percent are bullied because it was just their turn
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